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Love Without Losing Yourself A note on attachment and the courage to stay you Dear Reader, There’s a kind of love many of us long for —a love where we don’t disappear to stay connected,and we don’t harden to stay safe. A love where both people get to stay whole.A love where you don’t lose yourself. And if you’re reading this, you might know these moments well:When you care about someone, but you shrink yourself just to keep the peace. When closeness feels good in theory, but overwhelming in...
A Soft Homecoming A Gentle Invitation Before the Holidays Begin Dear Reader, I’ve been thinking of you all as we enter this season. I know November often brings that subtle tension — the sense that the season is picking up speed and asking more of us. As the holidays approach, it’s easy for our energy to get stretched thin and for our inner worlds to feel worn down and neglected. This time of year brings a deep paradox:our bodies naturally want to slow down, rest, and turn inward…while our...
The Quiet Cost of Pretending Why you were never meant to work this hard for love. There is a cost to belonging that no one talks about. Belonging is one of the strongest forces in the human body. From the moment you’re born, the body scans for connection. The nervous system will twist itself for it, work for it, and even sacrifice your truthfor it. Is it safe to reach?Is it safe to be seen?Is it safe to be me? When belonging feels shaky, the body starts shaping itself around what it thinks...