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Do Not Delay Stop Postponing the Work That Would Change Your Life Dear Reader, There will always be a reason to wait.And waiting is costing you more than you think. Not enough time.Too much going on.After the next trip.After the kids settle.After work slows down. There is always a reason to postpone. And postponing is expensive. It costs you sleep.It costs you energy.It costs you closeness.It costs you the version of you that feels steady, clear, and alive. We tell ourselves the right moment...
A Valentine’s gift to future you Removing the barriers that stand between you and true love Dear Reader, Valentine’s Day has a way of stirring things up. For some, it’s flowers and candlelight.For others, it’s loneliness, comparison, or the quiet ache of wanting something deeper. Culturally, we’ve reduced love to romance and performance.Dinner reservations.Perfect captions.Proof that someone chose you. But love — real love — is not a holiday. It’s a practice. And most people were never taught...
Uncomfortable Conversations What Standing at the Altar Really Means Dear Reader, This weekend, my partner and I marked our ten-year anniversary by entering into several deep and challenging conversations about the state of our union. We also danced, decorated our Lunar New Year tree, made mouth-watering gumbo, and enjoyed watching the snow fall outside our window. Alongside the celebration, we chose to take an honest inventory—naming what we cherish in our relationship, and where friction has...